Dear chị Mai, This is Minh, Tai's friend. It was very shocking to learn that Jeff is gone. I am very sorry for your loss. A few weeks or about a month ago in San Jose, I did meet and mention to Tai that Jeff is a strong man because years ago when I had a chance to talk with Jeff, Jeff told me that he can bench press very heavy weighs, and I'm impressed, but our last meeting with Tai, Tai didn't tell me anything about Jeff's current situation. Now, I know Jeff is no longer with us, I'm sincerely sorry to hear the sad new. Jeff will sincerely be missed. With my deepest sympathy and I just want to share with you that those we hold closet to our hearts never truly leave us. They live on in the goodness they have shared. And Jeff is among the best! My heartfelt condolences to you and your children! I'll remember him in my prayers. Sincerely and best regards, Minh " When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying. "